Does preparing for the holidays fill you with stress? Are you dreading finding something for everyone on your list? Are you fearing for the barrage of STUFF that will soon descend upon your household? Wouldn’t it be nice to replace these feelings of stress and dread with feelings of calm and joy? Here are five tips to cut down on holiday stress.... Continue Reading →
All your parenting problems solved by the internet
I’ve enjoyed online parenting communities since my kids were very little. I’m a member of several "mom groups" online and they have been, and continue to be, huge sources of knowledge and support for me. I love these groups and the communities they build. That said, anyone who has participated in an online parenting group... Continue Reading →
Social media isn’t destroying pre-teens. Here’s the real problem.
I’ve seen this article about the changing nature of pre-teen life being shared online lately. It’s written by a longtime middle school teacher who describes the vastly different social landscape faced by pre-teens today compared to a mere decade ago. The author describes a hypothetical 12 year old kid named Brian in the year 2008.... Continue Reading →
Responding to unwanted parenting advice with diplomacy and humor
Having a child and taking them out into the world can sometimes feel like an invitation to have others comment on your parenting decisions. With parenting, as with any endeavor, it’s important to be open to new ideas, to listen, and reflect. At the same time, we all know that a lot of the advice... Continue Reading →
We stopped watching TV for two years. This is what I learned.
Like just about any 1980s child, I grew up watching TV. Lots of Looney Toons, the same Disney movies hundreds of times over, and plenty of Nickelodeon shows with the apparent sole purpose of broadcasting green slime dumped on people’s heads. Most kids I grew up with did the same, and I don’t recall anyone... Continue Reading →
Why I don’t teach shapes, colors, letters, or numbers
What do you want most for your kids? To be happy? Successful? Inspired? Fulfilled? When was the last time you felt all of these things? When was the last time you felt invigorated? The lucky ones among us will recall the glorious days of summer break as kids, when we couldn’t wait to get started on... Continue Reading →